sometimes i question if he even has time for me at all. The littlest things set him off, and me as well. I would break up and then we would make up. Youre not alone my girl xxx, My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2yrs now, everything was all good until the beginning of 2019,he started to distance himself from me, one day I received a text message from a strange number asking me if I know my boyfriend and if we are dating, I was calm and honest when I answered the text, I went to whatsapp and checked the number out and I saw the photo, it was a lady texting me, I asked her who she was and she said she was just a friend to my guy and she noticed that lately my guy has been stressed and she thought it was a lady stressing her, thats why she snooped on his phone and got my number, all this time I remained calm, thee following day I decided to go to my boyfriend house without informing him, it was around 10pm, I met with the same lady their, my guy was not around, I got inside the house and the lady went straight to sit at the bed while I was sitting at the chair, I couldnt wait any longer I went home, I couldnt get in touch with the guy on phone, his phone was off, the following day this same lady called me at around 7pm telling me that my boyfriend is sick, I went to his house and I found the lady with my guy sitting on the bed very close, I was still calm I said hi and I sat on the chair, this lady excused herself and left me with my guy, I asked him who was the lady and he told me that his best friend was dating Herr so they are just good friends, we spoke and everything was good, the following day in the morning this lady text me and tells me why I came to break that guys heart, the guy told the lady that I had come to break up with him, that I told him I found another man, I never said anything like that, why was my guy lying? We ended up living together briefly because he did not want to be apart from me. When I asked again the second time I had to remind him since money was tight for the both of us that I wasnt the kind of girl that needed some fancy, expensive date, that if I came home one day and he had a blanket later out in the backyard and some snacks or whatever out for us and we ended up just laying there looking up at the stars the whole time and talking that that alone would be a really good date in my eyes. The first time I actually felt MORE irritated. He has lost interest in everything. He has recently been stressed about getting into grad school and got denied for his first two school. I dont want to lose him,i made a mistake and have learnt to trust him now! He Is Going Through Something We dont barely talk to each other. That way, I can assure two things. The last time I told him about him not making me a priority, he said felt he wasnt good enough for me. Perhaps you're the one whos losing interest: If you're constantly distracted, always on the phone, and aren't invested in your S.O. I stay with him but he doesnt make any effort in helping in the house financially and his not willing to look for a job. Its not just a lack of attention. No calling. NO PHONE CALL. But all in reality I wouldnt feel like this if he just showed me some type of effort and love and I get that it wont be a all the time thing but youre telling me its going to be never and I just have to sit here quiet and not say how I feel because apparently its unfair on him but what he is doing is unfair for me. As of now, we have been back together in a relationship for about a year and a half. Im still waiting on unemployed from when I lost my ft job in Sept. My tuition for spring is late. for example, yesterday, he gave me a box of chocolates only because his mom made him and i usually have to make the first moves, even if its something simple as reaching out to hold hands. This weekend I went to my sisters house and watched a ball game and the next day went to a movie with a friend. I have no friends no interest in men, I cant even stand it when strangers try to talk to me. When I have tried to speak about it again, he makes me feel as if its my fault, when he doesnt see his change in actions are making me stressed and anxious. Or also he went out and was feeling confused about the relationship where he didnt come home therefore he ended things in the morning after having a long night prob thinking about it. I feel like my boyfriend of 5 years doesnt really care anymore. My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 5 years. He used o do his laundry, make his bed, clean the kitchen, cook himself and I dinner when I was at HIS place a lot or even when i moved in with him! I feel like it would be easier being single which I dont want cuz hes a great guy other wise. Somehow I always felt that he did it because of something I did. When this happens occasionally, it's normal, but consider it a red flag if it's happening constantly. He gets very quiet and is hard to talk to. So yeah after that we began talking and calling. But he tells me that he wants to get married even im being a total b*tch. I so desperately want a date once in a while wether its once a month so we can enjoy each other and so i can feel like hes doing something special with me AND so i wont go crazy spending every moment in the HOUSE. He makes comments like some of us work for a living which is one of his huge baggage in life- the fact that hes a greedy mother $#_&@ and chose to be a workaholic and have no life even in his 20s so he expects everyone else to do the same. And what if something bad happened to him which I hope not at least I know who to contact. I would go on my off days when I wasnt in collehe classes or work. And you need to figure out why youre not asking him to treat you better. This sounds like a mentally and abusive situation. Its been almost two years and weve been inseparable ever since but lately it seems like something has changed. In order for your partner to communicate, share ideas, and feel close to you, you must reciprocate their attention; a healthy relationship isn't a one-way street. They say age shouldnt matter, but it does play a part. But I have been through more than enough pain and tough times for my age and I really wanted to be of help because I can imagine what you must be going through. But you have to become selfless. Take matters into your own hands.be who you need for yourself, Love you and your son enough to care for your own needs. MY BOYFRIEND AN I HAVE 2 KIDS TOGETHER AND WE BOTH WORK. He has no end of time for himself. Oh n did i mention that i literally have NOWHERE ELSE TO GO? Do you have an suggestions on what I should do? We both still live at home and even tho hes nearly 21, his parents still have some control over him, he doesnt talk back to them and theyre weird about him staying in my house and doing stuff with me (sometimes not all the time!) Then I gave up on trying to figure it out. Perhaps he wasnt taught how to love a woman, and he hasnt taken time to learn what goes into a happy, healthy relationship. He does not believe relationships should take work he doesnt want to have to work or make it work which is unrealistic. but up to now he doesnt understand what im pointing out and still refuses to make even small efforts. Its really hard to get him to change his habits. Hes a good guy but I dont know why he stopped trying. He never wants to go anywhere or do anything. HE DOESNT TAKE THE TRASH OUT ANYMORE. But he says that I am the person he wants to build a family with and take care of our children someday. Me and him didnt talk much because my mom found out more about my bf and i also couldnt sneak ipads anymore. Also, since he fundamentally had no place to live when quarantine first began his ex wife paid for a month for his AirBnB and he said he couldnt tell her about me yet. I dont think Ive really shared that with anyone before! or something but dont get mad if he says no just go do it because YOU want to do it Leave him the option, but if he doesnt pick up on it, just enjoy yourself anyways ^~^ cuz you deserve it You are working really hard and deserve to enjoy some time. One of the issues I have had for almost 2 years is that he does not put effort to see me. Around this same time, I decided to download the dating app bumble to see where it would take me. In fact, because you are so young, they will most likely find you when you least expect it. Next week is Valentines day, we live in far apart cities and are on a school break till the week after and I asked him if he wanted to go back to our school city to spend Valentines day together since its only 3 days before school starts. This man is no good for you, and he will never learn how to grow out of his depression if theres someone always doing everything for him. YESTERDAY I TEXTED HIM AN TOLD HIM THE TRASH SMELT BAD AND HE SAID OKAY ILL TAKE IT OUT WHENI GET HOME. He has learning and growing to do. I dont know if you have or not, but try just letting him spill his heart out to you about his feelings. Find yourself then get to understand your mate emotionally and mentally. Hes now working at a new job since Jan and its great! If his texts arent super time-sensitive, then its okay to You cant change how he acts toward youyou can only change your expectations. I could have written that. Get woke honey, the mans just not that into you. But anyway recently it just feels like hes not trying to be romantic or even putting much in, Ik our situation is very complicated and he is probably dealing with his dad still but I have to help my nana everyday and I still make time for him, send him cute messages like I made some welsh cakes I was thinking I could drop some off and give you a little peck as kind of a joke and he just replied with no dont do that. I love him a lot- weve been together for 2.5 years- but Im starting to realize that despite my feelings for him, I cant continue on in the relationship if he isnt willing to understand my feelings and desires. Letting Go of Someone You Loveis filled with comforting, practical ways to heal your heart. The middle of this relationship scale is a 5: youve been dating for a year or more, and you know each other fairly well. But I cant help but fear the same thing would happen again anytime soon.Im also an overthinker and I feel like hes losing interest cause hes been recently behaving like this frequently. Now I am sitting alone in my room crying and reading online articles about how to feel better about myself. My boyfriend is 22 years my senior and weve been dating over 8 months. (Probably why she fell in love with another man) now its like he is determined for me to not become selfish. So if it really werent for zoey (our dog) I wouldnt have gone on that second date with him (because I just cant say no to seeing puppies). I know it was all my fault and wish i could fix things! And think about the other person not just about yourself. He has always been lazy and wants to spend his day relaxing on his days off. But he reminds me almost daily that he thinks Im lazy and should be working at if Im not in school. So I stopped doing that and now treat him like just a friend. Ive been in same situation. Gaslighting, deflecting if I try to reasonably communicate how I feel (because I am not allowed to ever have a problem). I cut out all those smiley-faced emoticons he avoided and texted one-word answers sometimes, just like he would. He also doesnt seem as interested in what I have to say anymore. SHE STILL HAD HER HARNOUS ON HER. He works constantly and Im a stay at home dog mom (Recently weve been wanting kids). Your Aries guy might not be texting you back because he doesnt enjoy small talk or having long conversations over text. Please take some money you get from promotion and go to Counseling to help you. Right now hes not even talking to me. Xx Be strong. So I dug in my heels, and he had a stressful day at work, so it ended with him yelling that I was bipolar and he needed a break before I left and he went back to work. But in the last month, I have noticed that I am always initiating meeting with him, and he would suggest in the very same day or at the spare of the moment for me to pass by his place and we end up spending 2 hours or so with each other having sex and then I leave because one of us has a commitment. 8 Signs Youre Falling Out of Love With Your Partner, How People Who Commit Adultery Justify Cheating, According to an Expert, What to Do If Someone Is Flirting With Your Partner, What Is Breadcrumbing? Honestly if youve tried messaging him and he isnt responding I would just stop. I am this woman. Now, I dont know all the details of this, but I would say that hes pushing you away unintentionally while trying to cope with the loss of his father. Its confusing because he takes care of me by buying me food and we hangout all the time but theres 0 affection. Haha. I got so angry and disappointed after that. Always cussed them out and called them names, and he works a whole day.. we are now behind on bills , our electric is over 300$ , our wifi is 170+$, we have another wifi bill from another company thats 200+$, and hes had multiple concussions and a broken hip from hockey a long time ago.. Hes become so inward that I have to question him daily and it hurts.. But I needed to know if he still wanted the relationship with me because he has been so distant. Now its almost been two weeks since weve seen each other. So me and my bf have been dating fur about 5 months now. You can only hold on to hoping that things change for so long. These are no games. It was coming across the needle in the haystack that you placed in a way that someone was bound to find it. Like hes not gonna change. Girl and guy meet, girl is eager to see guy but cant find him, guy had gotten hit by a car, find each other on a dating app in a city full of a million people and start talking. , hopefully each day, I will start to become stronger, and maybe me and him could continue with our friendship as time passes. I trusted his words for way too long. Its been since then that the dating pattern of our relationship has declined significantly. And I decided Ive had enough, and it wasnt even a full month yet! After that night i got my phone taken because my grades were awful (bc of home issues) so me and him didnt talk much but that did not stop me.I would sneak the phone and iPad all the time and talk to him still but then my mom found out about this boyfriend of mine (my sister is a snitch) and i told her that i liked him but i wasnt dating him. Although I told him busy isnt excuse but he never changed his reasons, every time when I want wend the relationship, he replies straight away and tell me he dream about me, desire me etc. HI CHRIS, MY BOYFRIEND ALSO DRINKS A LOT. Thank you for what you said because not only do I relate to the emotional and psychological effects, I relate to the not wanting your house to look or smell like a GARBAGE CAN!!!! I dont get any attention unless Im the first one to initiate things. I tell him how much it hurts when he says certain things and that there is ZERO excuse for intentionally hurting someone we love. With him, he tried very hard to get the first couple dates with me and he didnt stop. If he isnt putting any effort in the beginning of the relationship then I think its time to let him go. After crying and getting rid of the emotional baggage, I realize now how fortunate I am to be out of that relationship. She told him to break up with me so he emailed me and said we needed to take a break until the situation gets better. He is the problem. Hes always been so affectionate towards me, always wanted us to be happy so we got together. I reslect to my culture. My boyfriend and I been together for a few months ,we dated not really long time ago and now we are in long distance. So any advice would be helpful. I think the best thing to do would be to withdraw and give him space. Any effort I make gets unnoticed and it is never enough. Especially because hes not an introverted person, he has a lot of friends he goes out with often to play board games or to bars. If you almost never see each other, then sitting down to talk about your relationship or his lack of effort would look much different than if you live together. I just dont know what to do. Im dating this guy for 3 years now. Men go through depression, hurt and sorrow just like us women do. Leaving a person you love is one of the hardest things to do. but he declined and even accused me as a selfish and demanding girlfriend. Its completely up to me to provide the conversation and topics, which is rather stressful for me 2 years in. I give it some days to really think what I wanted to do and I decided I wanted to work it out so I talked to him and expressed how I felt and ask what made him want to do this. I buy him presents, I shower him with so much love. But I am tired of not having a life together anymore. I love him so much but I cant help but question if his effort is a reflection of his interest. I have tried to express my feelings over and over, but I still get nothing. He stays at my house an wont clean a dish or pick up his trash off my floor. I know thats not what you want to hear. I used to blame myself but I took DBT and have actually tried employing the skills I learned. Recently, and at a time where my mental state has been absolute crap and I really needed some comfort, we didnt see each other for about a month and a half. I dont think he will change. There is no consistency. It was over a year ago that I asked my boyfriend if he would take me out on a date, but it never happen. It just seems like a cliche movie begining or something. Then, all of the sudden the bottom drops out and he is unresponsive. we see each other once a week, he invites me to his place at 9pm only to sleep together. My first true love affair and I got completely ripped off or short changed. And I would listen but then my insecurities would come back and were back to where we started. If you depend on him for your self-identity and self-image, then you have to learn how to be an emotionally strong woman in your relationships. In the second year of the relationship we were going out a lot to bars and clubs, and he began to drink a lot, and would become very aggressive with me, and started to treat me bad. I just wish he would care more. He sounds willing to work on your relationship, be thankful for that. everything stopped. Let him go! I dont know what to do. Any thoughts ppl? I gave him the benefit of the doubt too many times. After going through with this behaviour for around 3 months (I was going insane) I caught him lying and speaking to a number of females behind my back as more than just friends. I found a way thomy school computer so yeah. Its almost like when he couldnt have me he would try hard and now he has me and he doesnt have to put in anymore effort. He has motivation and spends money on doing that but what about me lol, he puts no effort into our relationship. If, for example, your boyfriend is dealing with work stress, emotional health issues or family problems then you can might want to give him some time and space. Not to mention, our second date was going to look at a puppy he was looking at after meeting my dog. I suppose I could explain all this to him when he asks if I am upset with him because I am not replying so quickly, but I am nervous about making things weird between us on the project. His text messages have gotten shorter, he would rather hangout with his buddies instead and says if we hangout to much we will get bored of eachother. Its too much. If so, you have to trust that your relationship can handle this temporary lull in affection and attention. We decided to move in together shortly after COVID began so I worked things out with my work and moved to his state. Now he doesnt do any of those, and I miss how it was before. 7 years this month, no anniversary, didnt even notice actually. Even though hes not there, I definitely dont sit home pining away for him. That will drive you crazy too. He is not often visit to me. they say love is sweeter than the second time arounnd, probably to some but not on me l met my boyfriebd wayback in highschool .. Im so gullible that time that I gave him everything I had. I didnt really understand why he said that when I been there since day one and still been here but I wanted to also considered how he felt and change that. It hurts a lot when they say things to intentionally hurt us. So that could also be taking up his time and mind. He has changed massively and does not do any of those things now. he is such a mystery. Hi! I am not at all sure he would do the same for me. Hi im kushi, 25yrs old.. My boyfriend and I have been in our relationship for 3yrs now.. He used to do all these romantic things for me before we went long distance. Maybe he doesnt want to look like a fool. Next thing I woke up to a text. I read this article today because today he laughed at me when I put on a dress that wasnt low cut or revels my chest. When You Wish You Were Married: Comfort and Joy on Lonely Days. Recently, despite being together for 5 years, I feel like a booty call. i felt unhappy with it.. i wanted to give up but i feel like im the only one who can understand him and love him uncondtionally. This isnt a man. Go back to doing the things I use to do before I met him. He would go as far as always try and give me hugs and he would try for me all the time and text me non stop, he would put an effort into trying to get me and he would always call me pretty and beautiful. this article is useful, thank you. Thats was our first time seeing each other in person (granted, Id seen him randomly beforehand in elementary school years before that). Me and my boyfriend have been together for more than a year now and I feel like lately he doesnt make any effort to spend time with me. I really i am lost and dont know what to do, love only gets old if he allows it, I have been trying to do sweet things for him aswell by making him a nice meal and texting him good morning and just checking up on him but I guess he seems rather bored. I asked him to help me move to where he lives the first 2 times he said yes quickly.. I miss him terribly. Hes him. Im always the one who always ask. I appreciated it still but it was all cheap and last minute, again lack of effort. So I stated being more involved in his hubbies then usual and listening. Its less taxing on my emotional self to stay lonely. Im sorry. But its not ones job to fix me. I dont know if I am being unreasonable. years later, i went to my facebook to unblock some people in my list, including him. You figure youll be happier not wanting anything from anyone. But Im not certain its not because he now wants to hurry to get the house finished and sell it while the market is hot. He is highly smart so I am not going to spell it out for him. So Im telling myself to just treat him like an acquaintance and move on with my life, but still find myself getting triggered on the daily by this baffling behavior. Our communication is pretty bad now. Soon realizing i wasnt going to come back to where i met him i tried to break it off. forgive me for my wrong grammars im a filipina and im not that good in expressing myself in english. Life is too short to waste it being miserable and stressed out and fighting over stupid shit. Because he needs time for himself and his past time projects, which is understandable as he is more introverted. Im really worried because from October were doing it long distance and Im dreading that if Im not the one to go see him, were not gonna see each other for half a year. I feel like I have to bow down to him because its always his way. I told him 3 times that this has bothered me and he has made no effort to change this. He pays alawys though i offer to pay but he refuses. I would put makeup on and wait hours for him to finish his video games, only for him to tell me hes sorry he got caught up, but hes tired and doesnt have time. My boyfriend & I have been together for over 10 years. He knows im going to have sex with him if he initiates it because im 36 years old and NEVER EVER EVER have sex. The day he chatted he just really want a date for that day and as we go along he confess to me that he has a crush on me since 6th grade and told me he really want to have relationship with me in high school but didnt make it because he think of me highly that he is afraid he gets dump by me so the ending he courted my bestfriend. I bought so much things to do for his birthday . but when you asked him he keep saying i dont hate you i hate your attitude sometimes. Most people reading this right now are probably thinking oh my god youre so young and u have so much time! Maybe hes too heavy into the party, drugs, and alcohol scene. Hes just happy having me in his life because Im supportive and loving but I dont see much effort on his side except when he really wants to do things he really likes. kissing, hugging, sex, cuddling, EVERYTHING! There is little to no effort from my boyfriend and every time I try to communicate that with him nothing changes. My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months already and up until this day, he is literally showing no effort in our relationship. We both have made developments and decided to let go of our bad past. Clearly I am not a priority and I deserve better so I think it is time to move on. Last week he finally invited me over to his house after not seeing him for almost two weeks when he had his daughter. Around the 5th month, he asked me to be his girlfriend but then he quickly retracted it after realizing how serious we were about to be. He told me he still wanted me and he loved me so i started talking to him again but things still felt weird. Hi Ella. Let me know your thoughts! Is your boyfriend an emotionally unavailable man? Tinder is amazing, by the way. he has a 9-5 job and all he ever wanna do is go home and game after and its not that i mind but is it rlly hard to jst have dinner w me for once? Ive been upset ever since and its only been a week but Im feeling really low and I have bad anxiety in general but its been worse lately because of him. I just dont feel like he loves me , why am I with him & what is he not getting ? I can tell you have much love for him but imagine how good itll be to love someone that has that same love and 10x more for you. One particularly painful reason that a partner has checked out could be that they've lost interest in the relationship and don't wish to pursue it any longer. I was heart broken. Meaning if he doesnt step up when you pull back. He also always texts me daily, and he is generally the one to text first, and always responds to my texts immediately. He never tells me anything until i find out or i discuss my issues. We fight a lot almost every week because my needs are not met. Get away from him immediately! Either speak up about these things or get out of that relationship. But there were also a couple of red flags like he wouldnt make concrete plans with me ahead of time, he would just tell me Saturday afternoon that he was ready for me to come over if I wanted. The key is to not give them the key to our happiness. I dont know why he continues on with me if he has no interest. I feel stuck, tired and so vary heavy like every step I take is being pulled back by large bricks as everyone else passes by at a much faster rate. He told me about his situation and how his mother is a single mom and he has to take care of his younger siblings. I asked him to spend Memorial Day with me shocker he forgot and made other plans. He is a nice guy as a whole but its the fact he went out of his way for me a handful of times that gave me a little hope in this And then when they do not respect those boundaries, I have a decision to make. Even though he always said he would try. We just hang out in my house. You cant change your boyfriend. Now I just want to be alone. He didnt court me. Im 47, and he is 57 now, and we have been together for 10 years now and have lived together for 8 years. We would stay up all night calling for hours, thats how we learned the most about each other. I really love him and he is my first. I know this might sound silly compared to all of yours. Im afraid the only way we can turn this scenario upside down is by starting to love and care about ourselves more. I knew something was wrong. I just cant understand or relate to his lack of effort anymore. Im so sorry this happened to you. 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